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Romantic getaways in California

For romantic getaways in California, wine country tops the list: Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley pairs a hot-springs spa with Michelin-starred dining in Calistoga. Couples who want city energy instead can choose Sunset Strip in Los Angeles, San Francisco's Embarcadero, or San Diego's Gaslamp Quarter, each with its own spa hotel or downtown base.

Last verified: September 2026

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  1. Best overallFour Seasons Resort and Residences Napa ValleyVillas, a hot-springs spa, and a Michelin-starred restaurant on one Napa Valley property.
  2. Best for couplesThe Peninsula Beverly HillsThe Peninsula Beverly Hills posts the highest guest rating on this list, at 9.4/10.
  3. Best spaThe Ritz-Carlton, San FranciscoL'Occitane Spa on site inside a Nob Hill mansion dating to 1909.
  4. Best with your dogHotel Nikko San FranciscoA rooftop pet terrace described as the only one of its kind in San Francisco.
  5. Best for food loversPendry San DiegoSix restaurants and bars on site, including Lionfish for modern coastal cuisine.

Wine country seclusion in Napa Valley

Napa Valley is the pick for a couple who wants scenery and quiet over city energy. Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley sits in Calistoga with 85 rooms that range from farmhouse-style rooms to three-bedroom villas, so the trip can be a single suite or something bigger for a milestone. Spa Talisa draws on Calistoga's hot-springs and mud-bath heritage, which sets it apart from a spa built around a standard treatment menu. Dinner runs through Auro, awarded a Michelin star for pairing Napa wines with local cuisine, or Campo, which serves Cal-Mexican food poolside for a more relaxed evening. Between the spa, the surrounding vineyards, and two very different restaurants on site, a couple could plan the whole trip without leaving the property.

In this guide: Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley

City lights in Los Angeles and Beverly Hills

Three hotels cluster on the Sunset Strip and in Beverly Hills, so a couple can choose a neighborhood mood without a long transfer between hotels. Pendry West Hollywood occupies an 11-story building that spans a full block on the Strip, home to a restaurant run by Wolfgang Puck and a real spa. 1 Hotel West Hollywood sits 0.2 miles away in a straight line and carries a Forbes Travel Guide listing; pets are allowed there too, useful if the getaway includes a dog. The Peninsula Beverly Hills posts the highest guest rating of the three, at 9.4/10 from 90+ reviews, with a spa and pool listed, and sits about 2.9 miles from Pendry West Hollywood in a straight line. Picking between the three often comes down to whether the plan centers on the Strip's restaurant scene or a Beverly Hills address.

In this guide: Pendry West Hollywood, 1 Hotel West Hollywood, The Peninsula Beverly Hills

A quieter stay near Anaheim's parks

For a couple building the trip around Disneyland Resort but still wanting an adult-feeling evening, JW Marriott, Anaheim Resort is less than a 15-minute walk from the park. Tocca Ferro Italian Chophouse serves steaks and hand-rolled pasta for a proper dinner rather than a quick meal, and Parkestry Rooftop Bar is described as the highest bar in Anaheim, a spot to end the day above the crowds. The hotel does not have a real spa, fitness only, so it works better as a base for convenience and a good dinner than as a spa weekend. A pool, restaurant, bar, fitness room, and EV charging are listed, which covers the basics for a short stay near the parks.

In this guide: JW Marriott, Anaheim Resort

A coastal base in San Diego's Gaslamp Quarter

San Diego offers a different kind of romantic base: Pendry San Diego sits in the Gaslamp Quarter, within about a mile of the sea by coordinates, with 317 guest rooms and suites. Six restaurants and bars are on site, including Lionfish for modern coastal cuisine, so dinner does not require leaving the building. Spa Pendry adds wellness services for a couple who wants a treatment before or after exploring downtown. Dogs are welcome too: the policy allows domestic dogs for a $100 plus tax fee per stay, so a three-traveler getaway works here as well.

In this guide: Pendry San Diego

San Francisco and the Bay Area

San Francisco has three hotels within a mile of each other for couples who want to stay downtown. The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco occupies a Neoclassical mansion on Nob Hill dating to 1909, with 336 rooms and 60 suites, a Michelin-starred chef at Parallel 37, and L'Occitane Spa on site. Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero holds MICHELIN Guide Two Keys for a second consecutive year in 2025 and occupies the top 11 floors of a 48-story tower designed by Skidmore, Owings and Merrill. Hotel Nikko San Francisco sits between the two, with an indoor glass-enclosed pool and a rooftop pet terrace described as the only one of its kind in the city, useful for a couple traveling with a dog. About 32 miles south, The Ameswell Hotel in Mountain View borders the Stevens Creek Trail on a 10-acre campus, a quieter option for a couple who wants distance from downtown.

In this guide: The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco, Hotel Nikko San Francisco, Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero, The Ameswell Hotel

The list

The 10 stays in this guide

Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley, Calistoga, Napa Valley

1. Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley

Calistoga, Napa Valley

Luxury SignatureBest for Food lovers

Our verdict

Worth it for villas, a hot-springs spa, and Michelin-starred dining in one place.

Rooms here range from farmhouse-style rooms to three-bedroom villas across 85 accommodations in Calistoga, built for a couple who wants Napa Valley scenery over a city view. Auro, awarded a Michelin star, pairs Napa wines with local cuisine, and Campo serves Cal-Mexican food poolside for a second, more relaxed night.

Good to know: Spa Talisa is built around Calistoga's hot-springs and mud-bath heritage, a different kind of spa than a standard city hotel offers.

Skip it if a city getaway suits the trip better; the nearest hotel on this list is in San Francisco, 55.4 miles away in a straight line.

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JW Marriott, Anaheim Resort, Near Disneyland Resort and Anaheim Convention Center

2. JW Marriott, Anaheim Resort

Near Disneyland Resort and Anaheim Convention Center

Luxury SignatureBest for Celebrations

Our verdict

Worth it for a night near the parks that still ends with a proper dinner and a rooftop drink.

For a couple building the trip around Disneyland Resort but still wanting an adult-feeling evening, this hotel is less than a 15-minute walk from the park. Tocca Ferro Italian Chophouse serves steaks and hand-rolled pasta, and Parkestry Rooftop Bar is described as the highest bar in Anaheim.

Good to know: There is no real spa here, fitness only, so treat this as a base for park days and good dinners rather than a spa weekend.

Skip it if a spa is part of the plan; try Pendry West Hollywood or The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco instead.

8.9Guest rating out of 10
from 650+ reviews on Booking.com
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Pendry West Hollywood, Sunset Strip / West Hollywood

3. Pendry West Hollywood

Sunset Strip / West Hollywood

Luxury SignatureBest for Wellness & spa

Our verdict

Worth it for a Wolfgang Puck dinner without leaving the hotel.

Pendry West Hollywood fills an 11-story building spanning a full block of the Sunset Strip, with 149 guest rooms and a restaurant run by Wolfgang Puck on site. A real spa on the property makes it easy to work a treatment into a short trip without leaving the block.

Good to know: 1 Hotel West Hollywood sits 0.2 miles away in a straight line, worth comparing before booking either address.

Skip it if Beverly Hills itself matters more than the Strip; The Peninsula Beverly Hills sits about 2.9 miles away.

9Guest rating out of 10
from 450+ reviews on Booking.com
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1 Hotel West Hollywood, Sunset Strip, West Hollywood

4. 1 Hotel West Hollywood

Sunset Strip, West Hollywood

Luxury SignatureBest for With your dogForbes Travel Guide listed property

Our verdict

Worth every dollar if a Forbes-listed address on the Strip is the priority.

1 Hotel West Hollywood carries a Forbes Travel Guide listing and sits 0.2 miles from Pendry West Hollywood in a straight line, on the same stretch of the Sunset Strip. A spa, pool, restaurant, and bar are listed on site, along with an LGBTQ+ friendly label.

Good to know: Pets are allowed here, so a couple traveling with a dog can keep this Strip address on the shortlist.

Skip it if a confirmed spa matters more than a listed one; Pendry West Hollywood next door has a real spa on record.

8.7Guest rating out of 10
from 680+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
  • Pool
  • Restaurant
The Peninsula Beverly Hills, Beverly Hills, Los Angeles

5. The Peninsula Beverly Hills

Beverly Hills, Los Angeles

Luxury SignatureBest for Couples

Our verdict

Worth it for a small, central Beverly Hills address.

The Peninsula Beverly Hills posts the highest guest rating on this list, at 9.4/10 from 90+ reviews. A spa and pool are listed on site, and the address is Beverly Hills itself rather than the Strip, a quieter feel for a couple who wants distance from the nightlife.

Good to know: It sits about 2.8 to 2.9 miles from the two West Hollywood hotels on this list, in a straight line, close enough to visit either for dinner.

Skip it if the Sunset Strip's restaurant and bar scene matters more than a Beverly Hills address.

9.4Guest rating out of 10
from 90+ reviews on Booking.com
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  • Restaurant

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Pendry San Diego, Gaslamp Quarter, Downtown San Diego

6. Pendry San Diego

Gaslamp Quarter, Downtown San Diego

Luxury SignatureBest for Food lovers

Our verdict

Worth it for a Gaslamp Quarter stay where the dog is welcome too.

Pendry San Diego sits in the Gaslamp Quarter with 317 guest rooms and six restaurants and bars on site, including Lionfish for modern coastal cuisine. A couple can plan an entire dinner, and a nightcap after, without leaving the building.

Good to know: Spa Pendry is on site for a treatment before dinner, and dogs are allowed for a $100 plus tax fee per stay.

Skip it if Los Angeles or San Francisco fits the trip better; this hotel sits well over 85 miles from every other hotel on this list, in a straight line.

8.9Guest rating out of 10
from 230+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
  • Pool
  • Restaurant

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The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco, Nob Hill

7. The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco

Nob Hill

Luxury SignatureBest for Wellness & spa

Our verdict

Worth it for a Nob Hill stay built around Parallel 37's tasting menu.

The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco occupies a Neoclassical mansion on Nob Hill dating to 1909, with 336 rooms and 60 suites including a Presidential Suite. L'Occitane Spa handles massages and body and face treatments on site, and Parallel 37 is led by a Michelin-starred chef.

Good to know: Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero and Hotel Nikko San Francisco are both under a mile away, in a straight line.

Skip it if a MICHELIN-recognized hotel matters more than a Michelin-starred restaurant; Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero holds MICHELIN Guide Two Keys.

9Guest rating out of 10
from 490+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
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  • Bar

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The Ameswell Hotel, Mountain View

8. The Ameswell Hotel

Mountain View

Luxury SignatureBest for Adventure & outdoors

Our verdict

Skip unless a quiet, out-of-town base near Mountain View fits the trip better than downtown.

The Ameswell Hotel sits on a 10-acre campus in Mountain View that borders the Stevens Creek Trail, a fit for a couple who wants a walk or run outdoors between spa visits. Roger, the hotel's 200-seat bar and restaurant, anchors the property.

Good to know: It carries a sustainability label and sits about 32 miles from the San Francisco hotels on this list, in a straight line.

Skip it if downtown San Francisco nightlife is part of the plan; the Financial District and Nob Hill hotels here sit much closer together.

9.1Guest rating out of 10
from 770+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
  • Pool
  • Restaurant
Hotel Nikko San Francisco, Union Square

9. Hotel Nikko San Francisco

Union Square

Luxury SignatureBest for With your dog

Our verdict

Worth it for a dog-friendly stay with a rooftop pet terrace of its own.

Hotel Nikko San Francisco keeps a rooftop pet terrace described as the only one of its kind in the city, alongside an indoor glass-enclosed pool, sauna, and wellness center. ANZU handles breakfast and Kanpai Lounge covers sushi and cocktails, both on site.

Good to know: Dogs up to 50 lb are allowed for $65 per day plus a $150 refundable cleaning deposit, and certified service animals are also welcome.

Skip it if a confirmed spa matters more than a wellness center; The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco has a named spa nearby.

8.9Guest rating out of 10
from 3,200+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
  • Restaurant
  • Bar

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Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero, Financial District / Embarcadero

10. Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero

Financial District / Embarcadero

Luxury SignatureBest for CelebrationsMICHELIN Guide Two Keys (2025, second consecutive year)

Our verdict

Worth every dollar if a MICHELIN Two Keys stay on the Embarcadero is the point.

Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero holds MICHELIN Guide Two Keys for a second consecutive year in 2025, occupying the top 11 floors of a 48-story tower designed by Skidmore, Owings and Merrill and completed in 1986. Restaurant Orafo serves a California-Italian-inspired menu.

Good to know: The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco and Hotel Nikko San Francisco both sit under a mile away, in a straight line.

Skip it if Nob Hill's historic setting matters more than tower views; The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco occupies an early-1900s mansion instead.

8.8Guest rating out of 10
from 310+ reviews on Booking.com
  • Spa
  • Restaurant
  • Bar

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Where these hotels are

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Questions travelers ask

Which hotel is best for a romantic getaway in Napa Valley?

Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley, in Calistoga, is the only Napa Valley hotel on this list. It has 85 rooms up to three-bedroom villas, Spa Talisa built around the area's hot springs, and Auro, a Michelin-starred restaurant on site.

Which of these hotels allow dogs?

Pendry West Hollywood, 1 Hotel West Hollywood, The Peninsula Beverly Hills, Pendry San Diego, The Ritz-Carlton in San Francisco, Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley, The Ameswell Hotel, Hotel Nikko San Francisco, and Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero all list pets allowed. Pendry San Diego and Hotel Nikko San Francisco also name a specific fee and weight limit.

Is there a hotel near Disneyland for a romantic trip?

JW Marriott, Anaheim Resort is less than a 15-minute walk from Disneyland Resort. It has an Italian chophouse and a rooftop bar described as the highest in Anaheim, but no real spa, only a fitness room.

Which hotel has the highest guest rating on this list?

The Peninsula Beverly Hills has the highest rating at 9.4/10, though from a smaller base of 90+ reviews. The Ameswell Hotel in Mountain View follows at 9.1/10 from 770+ reviews.

Are any of these San Francisco hotels close together?

The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco, Hotel Nikko San Francisco, and Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero all sit within about a mile of each other, in a straight line. The Ameswell Hotel, in Mountain View, is about 32 miles south of these three.

How we chose these hotels

We analyzed more than 250,000 US properties and list only hotels that meet our criteria for service, facilities, guest satisfaction and location. Each hotel here was checked against its own website or brand site before it was published. This list weighs a distinguishing dinner, spa, or view fact for each hotel more heavily than a generic amenities list, since a romantic California trip usually turns on one detail like that.

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